Sunday, September 30, 2007

The virtues of Ramadan

The virtues of Ramadan (1)

Narrated by Abu Huraira (Radhiallaho anho):
Allah's Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam) said "The blessed month has come to you. Allah has made fasting during it obligatory upon you. During it, the gates to Paradise are opened and the gates to hellfire are locked, and the devils are chained. There is a night [during this month] which is better than a thousand months. Whoever is deprived of its good is really deprived [of something great]."

This is related by Ahmad, an-Nasa'i, and al-Baihaqi.

Sis Aisya note: A thousand months equivalent to 83 yrs 4 mth! That's the reward of the Night of Power (Lailatul Qadr). How many people can live that long... we do not know... But that is the promise and generosity of our Creator.

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The virtues of Ramadan (2)

Narrated by Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (Radhiallaho anho):
Allah's Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam) said "Whoever fasts the month of Ramadan, obeying all of its limitations and guarding himself against what is forbidden, has in fact atoned for any sins he committed before it."

Ahmad and alBaihaqi related this hadith with a good chain.

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The virtues of Ramadan (3)

Narrated by Abu Huraira (Radhiallaho anho):
Allah's Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam) said "The time between the five prayers, two consecutive Friday prayers, and two consecutive Ramadans are expiations for all that has happened during that period, provided that one has avoided the grave sins."

Sahih Muslim

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The virtues of Fasting

Narrated by Abdullah ibn 'Amr (Radhiallaho anho):
Allah's Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam) said "The fast and the Qur'an
are two intercessors for the servant of Allah on the Day of Resurrection. The
fast will say: 'O Lord, I prevented him from his food and desires during the
day. Let me intercede for him.' The Qur'an will say: 'I prevented him from
sleeping at night. Let me intercede for him.' And their intercession will be
accepted."


Ahmad related this hadith with a sahih chain.

Sayings of Prohet Muhammad on Ramadhan #2.

1) Hastening the breaking of the fast
Narrated by Sahl bin Sad (Radhiallaho anho):

Allah's Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam) said "The people will remain
on the right path as long as they hasten the breaking of the fast."



Sahih Al-Bukhari Vol. 3 : No. 178

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2) Supplication of iftar -1



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3) Supplication of iftar -2



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Sayings of Prohet Muhammad on Ramadhan.

1) The Month of Ramadan

Narrated by Abu Huraira (Radhiallaho anho):
Allah's Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam)said, "When the month of Ramadan starts, the gates of the heaven are opened and the gates of Hell are closed and the devils are chained."

Sahih Al-Bukhari Vol. 3 : No. 122


Sis Aisya note: As the devils are chained during this month, without their influence, you will find it easier to perform your ibadah (acts of worship). You can recite the Quran or perform prayers and do not feel sleepy... etc. So if you want to memorise the Qur'an, this is the best time. Or take a course to enrich your knowledge, you'll get double rewards, 1 reward for seeking knowledge is compulsory and it's an ibadah; 2nd rewards from any ibadah done during Ramadhan is rewarded extras.

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2) Sahur

Narrated by Anas bin Malik (Radhiallaho anho):
Allah's Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam)said, "Take Suhur as there is a blessing in it."

Sahih Al-Bukhari Vol. 3 : No. 146

Sis Aisya note: Even if you do not feel like eating in the morning, at least take 3 dates, for there are blessings in it.

Blessing from: 1) It's Sunnah act to eat date (what Prophet do we follow, gets rewards from Allah); 2) The goodness of dates with the richness in minerals that are good for our body; 3) Three to Seven Dates can maintain your energy level till you break fast in the evening; 4) There are blessings that we do not know that comes from Allah


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3) Faith

Narrated by Ibn Umar (Radhiallaho anho):
Allah's Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam)said, Islam is based on (the following) five (principles):

• To testify that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah and Muhammad is Allah's Apostle.
• To offer the (compulsory congregational) prayers dutifully and perfectly.
• To pay Zakat (i.e. obligatory charity).
• To perform Hajj (i.e. Pilgrimage to Mecca).
• To observe fast during the month of Ramadan.


Sahih Al-Bukhari Vol. 1 : No. 7

Sis Aisya note: These are the 5 article of Faith of Islam. A muslim's IBADAH act. No muslim is excused from performing these acts except one who lost conscious or w/o a sound-mind. If a sound-minded "muslim" says he do not perform any ONE of these act, he is not a true believer. These acts are actually training us to be disciplinery... to have control over our Desire towards laziness, selfishness, stingyness, self-abstain from the temptations. All human are created with desire, at the same time, we are also instilled the fauculty of Mind... to differentiate between what is right and wrong. Besides that, we need guidance from our CREATOR, so 124,000 prophets were sent down in different generations/nations to lead human being to a better person and according to the measure of our Creator. Only 25 prophets were recorded in history and only 5 were given a BOOK (revelation from our Creator). And the book our the last prophet Muhammad is the Qur'an, which until today, it is still in it's original text, of what ALLAH says to mankind! Subhaanallah!

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4) Nawafil prayers during the nights of Ramadan

Narrated by Abu Huraira (Radhiallaho anho):
Allah's Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam)said, "Whoever establishes prayers during the nights of Ramadan faithfully out of sincere faith and hoping to attain Allah's rewards (not for showing off), all his past sins will be forgiven."

Sahih Al-Bukhari Vol. 1 : No. 36

Sis Aisya note: Allah describe in the Quran al-Baqarah (chap 2) describing the characteristic of a hypocrite. Anyone who perform ibadah without sincerity towards Allah, may not get any rewards except humiliation in the Last Day. Only if we know, the rewards that we can collect from Allah... why would one want to miss out? The greatest reward is Jannah (paradise)!

[ And those who wish for hell-fire did not really know what it is like, no human flesh can stand the heat of our stove fire right... hell-fire is billions times worst (hotter than the sun, human flesh also can't get near the sun in thousand miles)... and the dwellers of hell-fire would be punished as in human form (flesh and blood). All muslims are well-informed, if you are not, seek knowledge is the prophet's advise. Prophet says: "The best of my ummah are those who learn the Qur'an and teach the others."

Saturday, September 22, 2007

Ramadhan, time to do extras.

Indeed, Ramadhan is a rare month that we all (muslim) should be excited to "increase" rewards & blessings from Allah ;) I am really grateful that I have obtained the knowledge of the "how to" for Ramadhan :D

The best ibadah for my ummah is to recite the Quran -- hadith by our beloved prophet.

<< Rewards collecting time >>
• Fasting for Allah

• Those who are able to recite the Quran would be faithfully recite it everyday or to complete the whole Quran during the whole of Ramadhan.

• Perform 5 daily prayers and Terawih prayer

• Perform Tahajud prayer especially during last 10 ten days of Ramadhan to gain the Night of Power (Lailatul Qadr).

• Ikhtikaf in the mosque

• Give charity

• Dzkir (Rememberance of Allah)


to be continue...

Monday, September 03, 2007

3 days in hospital.

After the IUI procedure, I had been feverish and unwell. The nurses from KKIVF centre assured it was quite normal. So I thought of it as nothing and carried on my daily routine. Realising the fever gotten higher and higher each day, and the daily inserts causing sytoms of bloatedness and diarrhea. Called KKIVF for advise, still was assured it was normal, and if I felt uncomfort then should take 2 panadol.

I started monitoring my temperature on my own. At first, it was 37.7, then 37.4, then 38, then 39 degree. The diarrhea increases to 8 times a day. I began to take Panadol Extra and Charcoal pills... which had no reaction to the fever and diarrhea.

Something is not right... it had cause me giddyness and weak. (Hubby wanted me to do the houseworks and were too weak to do any.)

So on Friday, 31 Aug, I wanted to see doctor at the Marine Parade polyclinic. Hubby went with me around 7.30 am, thinking after that we can have breakfast together before he left for work.

After examined my tummy, I was in tears!!! The female doctor had pressed so hard and I felt terrible pain. My womb was already in pain just after the IUI for the past few days. She said my tummy was very tense and the fever was too high (39.1) for any pills to take effect. Need to be warded immediately - to Singapore General Hospital (SGH). We asked whether can go KK Hospital since I had just done my IUI there. She advised SGH, because they are better for medical knowledge, whereas KK specialised only with women. Agreed, so we gotten a referral letter to SGH.

Thinking should inform KKIVF, so I called. The nurse insisted I go KK 24 hrs Women clinic to check first, as I had just done IUI. Saying if KK can't handle, "they" would let me go to SGH. Saying should let my IUI dr know what's happening to my body reacting to IUI. Hmm... agreed to that too.

Hubby suggested had some breakfast before going to the hospital so I had a piece of Mac Hotcake, passed to him the other 2 pieces. He had to call office to go in late.

After examined by the KK 24 hrs clnic dr, I was warded around 11.45 am with a 39.7 fever. This was my first time warded in hospital.

The first day was "Nil by Mouth", meaning no food and no water. I was put on drip. 2 physio thrapist came, giving me a pair of "compression socks" to wear at all time to prevent any blood clot on my legs. Around 5 pm my hunger runs in. Hubby and my sister took urgent leave to keep me company. I pleaded badly to my sis to buy me some food so that if the dr decided I could eat then I'll have some to eat on the spot. When she and mummy went for dinner, they came back with MacNugget (big smile)! (The rest of the food stalls were closed.)

Urine output should be recorded to tally with the volume of drip. They were afraid I might be suffering from either Dengue Fever or OHSS, a complication when IUI or IVF went wrong.

Doctor didn't appear until the next morning, and was not my IUI dr. Although my fever had gone down, she was surprised that I didn't pass much urine after 4 bags of drip from last night. I had to let the nurse record all "urine output" with the measuring container. She asked me whether I want to go home... bewildered, I asked "can I?" (Of course I want to go home if I am well to do so.) But later she realised I had not been eating, she suggested to observe 1 more day with food intake, whether my diarrhea was better.

Agreed to that... as long as I can EAT! After she left, I grabbed a nugget and ate secretly. Hiding from my right neighbour, pitied that she was out of operation yesterday and was in terrible hunger too and put on drip.

Then sixth uncle family came visit and later in the afternoon, hubby and kak came.

As there were warnings from nurses, if I didn't pass urine, I would be back on drip! I was munching whole day! Then dr's instruction to drink more water to pass urine. At first after drinking about 500 ml, only 200 ml output. Slowly throughout the day, the volume increased especially after 5 pm.

At night after dinner, hubby suggested we go for a walk, with permission from the nurse. We went to the foodcourt, then prayed Ishak at the staircase.

Later in the night, my left room mate couldn't sleep and was a bit disturbing. I talked to her if she need help. She was in pain with the blood transfusion on her right arm and not used to the strange environment. She talked a lot so I can't sleep. I suggested some ideas for her to relax her mind to get some sleep, as the nurse would be in out every 2 hrs to take blood pressure and temperature. While talking, the nurse came in for the routine checkup.

Which I managed to sneak back to sleep till Suboh.

Breakfast serving at 7.30 am. The other room mates were curious with my Muslim menu. They were mouth-watery with my bee hoon soto, heeheeheee! Then we started chatting and joking, it was fun.

Cindy at my opposite bed, said her sister was curious what I was suffering from, as she saw me last night carrying a small bag "sending my hubby off" and looked so lively, didn't seem to be sick at all. Heeheee... that was the time we went for a walk and to pray. All my room mates thought I was discharging last night and wondered why discharged late at night and all. We were laughing together. Cindy then suggested we exchange contact numbers.

After doctor's routine check, Cindy and I were to discharge on that day. After informing hubby and family, I went back to sleep till hubby came to bring me back. Lunch was beef rendang, califlower and rice. Again, my room mates were all jealous with my delicious lunch, heeheeheeeheeeeeheee!!